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Wednesday, December 19, 2018

POWERFUL WAYS OF MAKING WORDS FLOW EASILY WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY


Ways to let words flow easily in awkward situation

Before I start I would start by asking you some few questions:
 First is;

Whenever you are watching movies or cartoons do watch along with your jotting materials?

Secondly,

When listening to people with great knowledge do you often listen to note down their points that they made or you to criticize?

And finally,

Whenever you are reading all sort of books, do often summarize or list down the main points the points that caught your attention?



Many students have been complaining, time without number that many at times whenever they are called to say or present something they won't be able to think of what to say and how to structure their words easily.

Even at times when writing letter or article to someone we find it so difficult to think of what to write, but then in this post you will learn how to make words or phrases flow naturally without being disturbed on how to think of what to say.




1. When Watching Movies Or Cartoons do this thing

At times, when watching TV we are being moved by some certain words or phrases, right? As humans we are more likely to remember what catches our attention, so in other to remember those words that caught your attention, pen them down on your notepad or on any writing material, so that even when you can't seem to remember them you can easily review them. But if you don't have any writing material close to you, you can use your phone or gadget as a notepad.


2. Read On Different Fields

Don't just read on your field, thinking that other fields were meant to be irrelevant.

Since you are familiar in your own field it is better to know other fields, as it will be a stepping stone for you when you are called out to do something or say something in an unexpected event. You mustn't know everything in every aspect but you must at least strive to know what you can in other fields so that whenever you're called to do something that is not related to your own field you, you can then be able to express or contribute and not being mute or feel embarrassed when you can't say anything.

3. Say Anything That Comes Into Your Mind

You will be surprise to know that this is what prolongs most conversations. In a normal dialogue or conversation, when a particular person is talking and then he becomes sort of words or trying to force out a particular phrase or word, in many cases what you would start hearing from the person's mouth, depending on the category of people is "uh, em-em-em, uhm" etc. But all of a sudden the word or phrase that he was battling to say then flows, and everything begins to flow as normal. So whatsoever the situation may be, say whatsoever that comes to your mind. And if peradventure you made a blunder you can say "I beg your pardon," or "Sorry, that was a slip of tongue" and you can then switch to the main thing you were trying to say.

4. Just Be Prepared



Anywhere you are going to just get your self prepared because anything can happen.

When I say "prepare" I mean prepare yourself before going out to face reality. For instance, if you are going for a lecture you must be fully prepared as a serious student, because there's no telling whether the course lecturer will give a test or not. So you must be prepared for anything if you don't want to fail.

PRACTICE! PRACTICE!! PRACTICE!!!

After doing all of the above, more especially 1. put them into practice, and apply them to your daily activities. And always remember that confidence is the greatest asset that you have as a human being. Always learn to be bold while speaking; never you doubt yourself on no condition.

Stay tuned as the part two of this post will be coming.



Well that's it. And until next time, thanks for reading.


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